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And to the Gentleman(I tried finding your name to personally thank you, but couldn’t) who replied to both messages, thank you, because there was another gentleman all along….Not that she cheated, but that while we were broken up for only 2wks and some days, she was cuddled w/ someone else, while I sat at home thinking about what “We” can do to make this relationship stronger. I still hurt, but I’ll be fine. Ce la vie….

By: E!

Now im no typical student, i always study hard and had an affinity for working alone. even at a young age I realized that i would have to separate myself from all other distractions (human or not) in order to achieve my life-long dream of becoming a surgeon.

I walked into gym for the first time, and the first thing that caught my eye was the sweetest little thing I had ever seen… now idk how we ended up becoming friends, or beginning the conversation for that matter b/c I made it a regular thing to separate myself from everyone else…. we became the best of friends in that first year of highschool…
She told me all about her family, and how she had given up going out in order to take care of her little brother (who was in a wheel-chair)… that was the moment where i realized she was truely an angel.

During the summer she told me that her friend from gradeschool was tansferring in… Immediately i started thinking that this guy was going to be some deuche bag… I’ll never foget the day she pointed him out to me.. across this gigantic gym. Me and this kid became the best of friends, probably the best i could ever have to this date.(justin)

soph year was a year of flirting, as how all of h-s usually is… and me, justin, this gurl, and her best friend sat in our own little section of the room.. Justin and her best friend started goin out and would always tease and say that me n her should date too to make things even. I could never bring myself to do this however b/c she had a bf.. and i am not the type of person to be a deuche…

we were friends, and i would do nething for her… she was not allowed to have a bf, so she would call me and ask if i would call her bf and tell him to go online so they could talk. I worked both sides of her relationship with him… secretly talking to each one of them and telling the other what to do, in hope of keeping their relationship together…

somehow we gradually lost touch… one day when we were on a field-trip she pulls me into a dollar store and tells me that she has something to tell me.. she tells me that her n her bf broke up… (so i thought maybe now was my chance to say something..) but as soon as i thought that she said that she had been talking to this other guy named steve.. I hated this guy… and thats where things went wrong.

I hated him and he hated me… long story short, LOL, im kinda tired.. I kinda dissed her friend (who im not sure she really likes neways) and dissed her bf (by calling him lazy…) but she still stood up for me..

her little brother n i were great friends… I mean her entire family loved me.. but one day I came by for something, and while i was talking to her lil brother she tried shutting the door… twice!… I mean this kid is only in 6th grade.. and he is in a wheelchair!.. I WAS HEARTBROKEN. I couldnt believe that she did this…

so I called her and talked to her about it.. she said that she didnt want ne of her friends talking to him bc he says stuff hes not supp to.. (SO WHAT? he’s a kid!!) yada yada yada, a day b4 grad i told her that i am just causing her way too much grief and that it would be best if we just went our separate ways… n she agreed.

We were in the top ten of our class… and during the grad ceremony we had to come down the isle with a partner of equal excellence…. I was 3 n she 4.. neither of us knew that they were gonna do this, but we walked down that isle side by side… they made speeches about friendship and all that good stuff… and i just cried, and cried… and cried.

now, it is almost 3 months since and i cant help but wonder if i did the right thing? I mean, there’s a lot more to the story but this is what it all boils down to…. I cant sleep (worse than my regular 4 hrs of sleep..) and everytime i close my eyes i see her face and hear her voice.. the very mention of her name rocks my boots… idk, did i do the right thing?

By: Ali

We have been through allot in the past 5 years, but I have ask
very very nicely over the years for him to change, and he won’t
this is really hurting me because he needs help with his bad
controlling ways on women, he would not let his wife of 20 yrs
work outside the home, they are divorced now, and now I guess
it’s my turn not to work for 20 years, but I can’t do it because
I have worked my entire life, up until the last 4 years we have been
together, I guess he is very old fashion, and I don’t know how to
break this to him, we are living together and we own this house
together, but we are not married, and I just don’t think I could sit
at home for 20 years. I enjoyed working and filling like I made
a difference in peoples lives, but that has all stopped. I have tried
to bring it up but he changes the subject
and that leads me back to square one again, unemployed,
I think he is asking me to give up to much, what do you think?

By: Debbie